You've more than likely been dreaming of your quinceañera since you were small. This is the day when your family members and closest friends get all dressed up, eat all sorts of comida deliciosa, and celebrate the transition you're making from being a child to being a woman by dancing all night at your quinceañera. Planning this type of massive event might appear to be a bit daunting, but you're a woman! If anyone can handle it, you can. Here are a few quick tips on making this a night you'll never forget.

Guest List

No quinceañera will be complete without guests. These days, guest invitations don't need to be sent through the mail. You can get a digital flyer to be sent through email and social media. The people you invite can have their invites within seconds of you sending them. Just make sure you don't forget family members and anyone who you want to be a part of this special night.

No Rules

While it's true that most quinceañeras follow a specific set of traditions and customs, and while your family may be splurging for this quinceañera, you shouldn't feel as if you absolutely have to incorporate these into your event. Keep in mind that this is your night, not your abuela's or madre's. Yes, it'll be a nice thing for you to respect their wishes, but your happiness is the main concern. If there's something that you want or don't want to be incorporated into the event, speak your mind. Compromise is always an option.

Choosing the Date

It makes sense for your quince to be near your actual date of birth, but there might be other factors to consider when you're choosing the date. Which season might be the best option for the event, winter or summer? If your birthdate doesn't fall on a holiday, should you wait for one? When will most of the people you invite be available to attend? The date requires you to think long and hard before it's chosen because once you've reserved the venue and sent your invitations, making changes can be beyond difficult.

Choosing Your Court

If you follow tradition, your quince court should consist of 15 people. It will be you and 14 of your closest friends. Because each of these members represents a year of life, you should make the effort to stick to this number if it's at all possible. These people can be ninos, ninas, or a mix of the two. It's critical that these people are carefully chosen. They shouldn't just be your nearest and dearest friends; they'll also need to be able to handle a few responsibilities. Choose people who can help you choreograph, decorate, and plan, and try to stay away from those who might want to steal your spotlight.

Finally, try to include some of the more fun traditions. Quince celebrations tend to include a few fun traditions. As with everything else, it's entirely your call as to which ones you'll want to include, but there are quite a few that many people enjoy. 

One of these is the change of shoes. This is where the quinceañera is presented with her very first pair of heels. Then, there's the crowning ceremony, where a tiara is placed on your head by one of your favorite relatives. The ceremonia de la ultima muneca is also a great tradition. In this one, you're presented with your last doll by your father or a father figure. Generally, this doll will be dressed just as you are on your special night. 

Remember to have fun and take a lot of pictures and videos. Enjoy becoming a woman on this night you'll never forget